So I know everyone is going to answer “yes”, but I want actual real thoughts. I just want to know where I fit in.

I’m AMAB, and present as male, at least on the surface. I’ve always felt that was wrong though. But I don’t necessarily think I’m a woman. I wish I was more feminine. And recently I started full body laser hair removal, and I have pretty long hair, and currently have my toe nails painted. But I also have a beard, and otherwise present totally as cis.

Am I “trans”? I don’t feel “cis”, but I feel like calling myself trans just isn’t accurate and is inappropriate. Is there any other option?

And a complicating factor is that I’m basically only attracted to female presenting people. I see a lot of mtf trans people posting online “t4t”. Would other trans people consider me “trans”?

  • Squished Fly (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    Oh, I actually might have something useful to say about all of this c:

    I’m actually in a quite similar position as (I think) you are. I’m just gonna say the magic word right out of the gate: Agender ✨

    I don’t really know what it means to “be a certain gender” but presenting more femme makes me happier. I generally think that gender differentiations shouldn’t be a thing because it makes absolutely no sense for me.

    I don’t fit into any gender stereotype and neither do I wanr to but when it comes down to it, being male makes me too disphoric for me to not take HRT