I’m not projecting. There’s science that shows this is what happens. I doubt you are a magical exception that proves that raping 14 year olds is actually okay for them. I think being okay with that shows you are affected by it. But I’m not really interested in provoking your trauma more. I do vehemently disagree and find that position to be gross at minimum and a red flag for your kids’ safety at maximum. It’s a very concerning belief.