• cameron_vale@lemm.eeOP
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      1 year ago

      Ok here’s an example.

      Bob : “When I put on a dress people look at me funny, which is hurtful.”

      Rob : “Meh, you don’t look very hurt to me.”

      BAM! Rob just argued against Bob’s suffering, which is a sin. And now everybody will justifiably hate on him.

      But why, exactly? What’s the logic here? Why does suffering get excepted from analysis?

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        1 year ago

        What’s the point of the analysis? It doesn’t seem needed in any way in the example you gave.

        This isn’t even really an “argument”, it seems like Rob is being judgemental for no real reason

        No one asked for his opinion. No one put anything up for debate. It seems like he’s just being a dick to his friend.

        Perhaps Rob should try having a bit more empathy?

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          You don’t know. Maybe Rob looks at Bob and it appears that Bob is having the time of his life. You don’t know. You have zero evidence.

          And there you go. On zero evidence you brand Rob a dick.

          Isn’t that interesting?

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            1 year ago

            I based it on the information that you provided there buddy.

            This seems more like you’re just airing your personal grievances because someone didn’t want to put up with your neckbeardy douchiness

            Someone refusing to put up with your abuse does not mean you’re being “oppressed” dude

            Stop being such a whiney baby about it and move on

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        1 year ago

        What does Rob know about Bob better than Bob knows themself? You don’t have to look outwardly hurt for it to be true. Rob should mind their own business. It’s not a “sin”, it’s just inconsiderate. If Rob weren’t a jerk they would take Bob’s word for it and say “that sucks” despite their judgement.