I have gotten like 8 separate reports for this one comment it’s ANNOYING

  • Kaladin_Stormblessed@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Who the fuck cares if someone isn’t into trans people? We’ve heard it a million times. It’s transphobic because 9 times out of 10, the person saying it isn’t just neutrally expressing a presence they happen to have; they’re saying it because it’s a more socially acceptable way to talk about how disgusting they find our bodies.

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      lol transphobia is now saying the genitals you prefer a sexual partner to have when directly asked

      “9 out of 10 people that don’t want to have sex with me are actually bigots, and definitely not just people with a different sexual preference”

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        That’s so obviously not what the problem is here, you’re just misdirecting.

        The problem people are having is their weird fixation on the breasts of trans men, and their own admission they’d be a nonstop creep about it.

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          How am I misdirecting? The person I replied to didn’t even directly mention the comment in the OP, they just made a sweeping generalization.

          I didn’t say the comment in the screenshot isn’t weird, but that doesn’t mean stating your sexual preference when asked is transphobic like they said.

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              Are you even reading these comments? Please show me somewhere that I said that isn’t transphobic. I just said it was weird because that was the same verbage you used, and I will also agree with you that it’s transphobic.

              That isn’t what was being talked about in this comment thread.

      • That is very clearly not what I’m saying. That’s not transphobic, but constantly talking about it and shouting how disgusting you find trans bodies and how you’d never fuck them is transphobic. Nobody online cares about your sexual preference; it only matters to your sex partners.

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          But how is that applicable to this case, where someone was asked about their sexual preference? Someone literally did care in this situation.

          I agree with you that the behavior you’re describing would be transphobic, but that’s not what happened here and isn’t what happens “9 times out of 10”.

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      Except the thread was specifically talking about whether people who identify as straight are into women or into femininity. The person in the post responded they were into women because he is sexually attracted to women’s curves (namely their breasts) and some ace person decided that it was disgusting for him to say that because they (the ace) don’t find people’s bodies attractive therefore anyone who does find people’s bodies attractive is super gross and the OP was just responding back defending himself. This wasn’t some unsolicited comment about trans people.