If someone is fixated with a body part that you loathe, with no respect for your own bodily autonomy, there is no room for “negotiation”. Being single is better than living with someone like that.
I’m more referring to the person that posted the comment, rather than the hypothetical partner. But yeah, I’m not saying that there aren’t boundaries that you should have in relationships, or that you shouldn’t break up with someone if they’re harassing you, I’m mostly saying that the commenter’s thought process reminds me of a closed-minded approach to relationships that I see pretty often.
If someone is fixated with a body part that you loathe, with no respect for your own bodily autonomy, there is no room for “negotiation”. Being single is better than living with someone like that.
I’m more referring to the person that posted the comment, rather than the hypothetical partner. But yeah, I’m not saying that there aren’t boundaries that you should have in relationships, or that you shouldn’t break up with someone if they’re harassing you, I’m mostly saying that the commenter’s thought process reminds me of a closed-minded approach to relationships that I see pretty often.
Oh, I think I misunderstood. Sorry about that.