Honestly while I don’t think you’re transphobic, I can see how this comment can be seen as transphobic because it implies you know that the guy is trans and the only thing that hasn’t broken you up is that he hasn’t medically transitioned. It’s a bit of a transmedicalist hypothetical and can be seen as somewhat transphobic. I usually just say I’m attracted to women and leave it at that.
Honestly while I don’t think you’re transphobic, I can see how this comment can be seen as transphobic because it implies you know that the guy is trans and the only thing that hasn’t broken you up is that he hasn’t medically transitioned. It’s a bit of a transmedicalist hypothetical and can be seen as somewhat transphobic. I usually just say I’m attracted to women and leave it at that.