For me it is always 3rd. Its almost like I’m an actor in my own dream. Few times I realize it, but then just wake up.

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    9 months ago

    First person, and an interesting note. I was experimenting with lucid dreaming for awhile, with some very minor success. One thing that ALWAYS woke me up though, was doing something I had never done in real life. I was unable to breathe underwater. The mere attempt would wake me.

    Then I got scuba certified in real life, and like magic, I was suddenly able to breathe underwater in my dreams.

    It makes me wonder how you think about yourself in real life.

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    9 months ago

    Both and neither?

    Hell sometimes I’m not even the focus of my dreams. It’s sometimes like watching a movie without me in it, or in a third person omniscient point of view, and sometimes it’s like watching surrealism folding in on itself without any sense of form or even reasoning.

    My dreams are all over the place, hell and sometimes my dreams will be like a continuous story or theme over multiple nights.

    I do have to say though my dreams are way more intense (and memorable) on days when I focus hard on my cardio a few hours before bed. Like yesterday where I pushed my heart rate to about 180bmp (over double (about 2.5x) my resting rate) for 30min. Absolutely insanely vivid dreams and I slept like a stone.

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    9 months ago

    Mostly, but not always first person. But I’m not always the same person - my age and sex isn’t at all consistent in my dreams. I’ve been an old woman or a baby boy, and pretty much everything across those spectrums. In my dreams it’s completely unremarkable.

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      9 months ago

      Same but when I was 13 I believe for some reason I was always a girl in my dreams. It just kept on happening until it just kinda stopped happening. I’m still wondering wtf was my brain doing then.

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      9 months ago

      Interesting, I’ve definitely been other dudes (I kind of see as other versions/images of myself – ?). I also tend to dream in first person but occasionally third person. I don’t think I’ve ever been a woman or a baby in any of my dreams though.

      Most of my dreams tend to be ridiculous action-film like stuff. If dreams are a portal into alternative realities/versions of yourself, I’m the most boring version of me 😂 And maybe I’ve never dreamed of being old because those versions of me don’t live to an old age 😬

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    9 months ago

    I’m not even in my dreams half the time. More often than not my dreams feel more like something I’m watching as opposed to something I’m in. Tho every now and again I’ll randomly be in the dream, and it’s usually 1st person. Otherwise… 3rd I guess?

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    9 months ago

    Wow this is so interesting. Always first person for me - maybe there were other times otherwise but I don’t remember. Wow I never imagined people would dream otherwise.

    I shocked me when I read somewhere else that a lot of people don’t dream in color. What the hey?

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      Yeah this is blowing my brain! Literally 100% of my dreams are first person. I don’t even understand how you can dream in 3rd person. Like, you’re seeing yourself from a distance? But like, then there are two of you - the one you’re looking at, and also the floating you that’s doing the looking.

      WHAT?!

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    9 months ago

    I go back and forth within my dreams. Usually it’s first person, but sometimes I seem to be floating just above watching myself

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        Yes. It’s a different avatar or character as me in different dreams. Sometimes there will be another person from life also in the dream as themselves, sometimes a person from life will be there in a different avatar then what they look like in life.

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    9 months ago

    Unless there is some sort of cinematic scene or I am not the focus of the dream, the dream is 100% first person.

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      9 months ago

      I have found a bit of a way for me at least to control wether it’s first person or theird person. Often when I’m just daydreaming some fantasy until I fall asleep the dream is 70% of the time first person. But when I’m daydreaming some sort of movie until I fall asleep 70% of the time my dream is theird person and if I’m just thinking random thoughts like who am I gonna take my car to get it’s oil changed 70% of the time there’s no dream. I just open my eyes and now it’s mid day.