AntifaTeamLead@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's the most manipulative thing you've ever done?
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30 days agoIt’s a win-win for everyone. Plus, if the person misses the obvious thing, you know what not to trust them with in the future!
It’s a win-win for everyone. Plus, if the person misses the obvious thing, you know what not to trust them with in the future!
I have and will continue to make a small number of obvious omissions or minor misspellings in my work when I submit it to my bosses for review. Not in the majority of my work, but mostly when they may have some resistance or hesitation on a course of action or a part of the project.
If I can trick them into contributing to the project by fixing or improving it, they end up feeling ownership of it in a way they wouldn’t have otherwise. I do this on purpose, and turn a hesitater into a champion of the work. It’s our project now!
I’m making gifts for family that I know they will love and appreciate. Gift giving is only as much about consumerism as you make it. To reject getting joy out of seeing someone else get something they would love is a bit short sighted.