bigmonmulgrew

When I had this issue I made it my characters goal to engourage my party’s growth.

I ended up being the leader by merit of my character being more forward thinking and organised.

So instead of me handling anything I’d be like… “Elf go talk to that guy I have a feeling you will get in well”

I encouraged them to grow in character.

I didn’t. You can be narcsistic, or behave in a narcissistic manner without having NPD.

Dictionary definition “a person who is overly self-involved, and often vain and selfish”

I wasn’t using them interchangeably.

Narcasists don’t like being told “no” they consider it a personal attack.

Interestingly a strong aversion to being told “no” is also the same mindset rapists have.

Also interestingly Spez used to moderate a sub for people who looked underage.

I couln’t imagine any of that being related