Recommendations for a noob like me?

As an American I’m surprised it found it’s way back to her

No I think that’s by design. I also thought it was 71 at first it just takes a bit more time

How long ago was this? How old are you now? 39 is the age cut off for some branches so there might still be a chance if you wanted to try out Guard/Reserves even just to get that one weekend a month experience

Some of us left here aren’t like them 🥺