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Cake day: 2023年6月18日

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  • Having your nails painted isn’t nearly as scary as it sounds. You might get a second glance sometimes, but mostly people don’t really care and it’s all in your head. Mine are a nice flashy corral color right now and I haven’t had any negative interactions. In a worst case you just kind of get the feeling that people are actively trying to not comment on it.

    It honestly works great as a good social filter. Sometimes I’ll run into a cashier or someone similar in passing who seems uncomfortable with it(usually older folks), but it’s otherwise a good way to find other queer folks or allies in the wild and start a conversation.



  • You’re probably thinking of the Lemmit bot and community. There’s no reason to not name and shame here.

    While I find it weird, unnecessary, and kind of gross too there’s an(or there should be an) implicit understanding that everything anyone puts on the internet is there to stay, forever. Rarely ever is deleting a photo actually removing for good and your tidbit about consent isn’t quite relevant.

    The vast majority of the women that are being reposted are Onlyfans models and have watermarks on their photos for this exact reason. Reposting it like this only serves as extra advertising. For real exhibitionists and people who aren’t making money off the transaction, yes it’s gross, but I don’t think you can create any universal rules to easily differentiate between the two without very heavy moderation.