One step further, even. Women take responsibility for their own emotions, and filling their own needs. So if they feel lonely, they create community, in friends. What I hear, when I hear “loneliness epidemic in men” is men expecting women to tend to or serve their emotions and they aren’t capable of tending to their own emotions. Like a little baby, I don’t know any woman who wants to be responsible for their partners emotions, AND their own. Because it’s not like these men are going to be looking after the womens emotions, the same.

It’s emotional immaturity. Borderline, sometimes actual emotional abuse. You are supposed to be responsible for filling your own needs, as an adult. I feel like men have just never stopped and noticed all that women do (or ended up being socialised or forced to do).

I just watched a tik tok that talked about women being called irrational for worrying if everything is together at the holidays, they do everything. Then if they’re walking out the door and worrying if everyone has everything, the husband says “you worry too much, everything will be fine”. Everything is fine, because she’s planned and prepared for every contingency, and it’s entirely overlooked, it’s unseen, unacknowledged work.

And I can’t help but see the link between what has been baseline accepted / perceived as what women “do” or “women’s responsibilities” in relationships for men, predominantly all the house work, holiday planning, knowing stock levels and needs, kids / friends / family birthdays and needs, doctors appointments, clothing… I can’t understand how that became a basic expectation that one person in the partnership do all of that, and then, women are disengaging from relationships with men, and instead of looking at the environment they created for women, that they wanted to no longer be engaged in that, they doubled down and shouted about how it’s a strangers (all women’s?) job to fix their feelings, while they roll around wailing on the floor (I imagine).

Ultimately men have been conditioned to not appreciate or see what women do, and to feel like their “manliness” is tied to how much they subjugate another person. And ultimately both of those social dynamics serve capitalism and are predominantly strong in extreme evangelical religions. It makes the rich richer if men are emotionally immature and taught to oppress women. Then women provide free labour to capitalism, emotional support, children and home. If capitalism had to make space for or compensate the work women do, raising children, it would go broke, overnight. It’s not that providing the next generation is a worthless task, it’s that the division of wealth is being hoarded by a handful of people and they violently don’t want to let go of that.

If someone gets Knickers in a knot, because they know one woman or one man who isn’t like that, you missed my point and that doesn’t detract from my point, I’m not saying if they all don’t do this, it doesn’t hold water, obviously lots are disengaging, currently. Some in a healthy way, some not. I just find all this stuff fascinating to talk about, and the fact it’s hidden from you, you have to piece it together yourself. We’re all being collectively manipulated, on a societal level to, essentially, funnel money to a handful of people. It blows my mind how deep it goes. This whole nuclear family, is relatively new. It’s against our nature and our grain. And it’s very much not working.

You’re essentially telling your nervous system it’s safe, right now, which seems like an important thing to do frequently, in the current climate.

Oh. Em. Gosh, I’ve watched that movie so many times since I was a kid, I couldn’t even count. She’s awesome and terrifying!

I love what you did there, but to be biblically accurate, they asked zero safety / security questions in the 80s.

A common misnomer about adhd brains is that they’re wired, but really they’re actually super tired brains, trying desperately to wake themselves up by flooding adrenalin and cortisol in place of desperately and dangerously low dopamine, (which is actually the petrol that gets you around, not just a carrot at the end of the ride). So when a super tired brain that’s overly flooded with adrenalin, gets enough stimulus to produce enough dopamine, it let’s go of the adrenaline, mops it all up and can finally rest. Think of those nights you tried to stay awake with teenage friends and caffeinated yourself silly and everyone got all loud and weird. That, but all the time.

Ww2 or the Japanese internment camps, aren’t currently happening right now and continuing to happen. If they were they’d elicit the same reaction and actions. That makes you a contributor to what’s happening if you fund it, or patronize it.

Yeah, boycotting is a better word.

I could imagine that what US has done has caused fear and a feeling of needing to hoard enough to get your country through a war. It’s making me, a lowly in Australia feel like we should be able to survive on our own, and have more available resources. I’m going to guess they’re more aware of threats than I am, more aware of where the next steps of this whole “mastermind” plan of Elon and Trumps enacting. This is not the only consequences of what they’ve done, we’ve only seen the tip of the iceberg, yet.

We’ve got one of these Trump copies trying for the top job, in Australia, too. I’m genuinely worried.

Oh yeah! Super chunky, with a hint of slime. Bellissimo!

It’s mastitis, so more like the whole portion, internally, is filled with puss. Which needs antibiotics…

That day would become a world wide day of celebration.

The terminator movies had it wrong, this is how Ai became all human hatey, on the timeline.

Not disagreeing with you, but isn’t your theory why we have nuclear bombs now?

“you know, new day, same old, how about you?” think of it as a game of catch, throw the ball back, if you don’t want to / or have a quick answer.

Look into men leaving their wives when they get sick / cancer… Just peak at it a tiny bit.

I think a lot of that kind of stuff is going to happen. I don’t think other countries are insulted, as much as they find it ridiculous, and to be ridiculed, I think they’re going to do some inventive chaos. I think we need to be building some world bingo cards, and I’ll bet we won’t guess all the (hopefully hilarious) petty revenges about to snowball.

People justify their own behaviour and responses, they build justification for why *it’s ok when I do it because… *. People with narcissistic personality disorders and the such, who do very bad things, perpetually see themselves as in the right, to a delusional extent. The bad guys, genuinely think they’re the good guys. We all do it, to an extent, they double down, they go big.

Netanyahu put hamas in power. And yes there’s been reports from people captured by hamas. They don’t paint that picture at all. The only thing that paints that picture is Israeli propaganda. I don’t understand why launching missiles, after being under attack for decades, is seen as a horrific act, but bombing and targeting children, as Israel is doing for a year and a half, not once, like hamas did, is somehow not. What you’re reading isn’t the truth. It’s out there of you look. And you don’t have to look far to find it, first hand accounts. Doctors in the hospitals there, actual footage. How do you think that made up bullshit, flies at all. Please tell me you accidentally fell down that hole of propaganda, not that you’re just a troll for Isreal, because there’s lots of them. More on reddit than here. I suppose that was going to change.

I fucking HAVE bath crayons! (it’s because I have kids, I swear) man imma be unstoppable, now.