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    1. Dunno if you made this, ozma, but the women’s march that everyone focused on didn’t happen in 2021, it happened in 2017, the day after trumps inaguration. Sure, there have been ones almost every year since but the big one that drew the most attention was 2017. So if you made this you should fix that. If not then. I dunno. Just exist I guess.

    2. The people saying “why aren’t you protesting trump?” do not understand the point of protesting. Trump isn’t able to be swayed and Harris is, I definitely agree with that sentiment.

    3. I think the chants need to be better. Now I’m not a chant girl, but I still think they need to and can be better. The movement needs to focus on pushing Harris, and that doesn’t have to mean saying, “we won’t vote for genocide.” There have to be ways to push her that aren’t saying outright that you refuse to vote for her. Protesting during her speeches and events is great, but there’s better ways to phrase it. Even just shaming her by somehow saying, “Come on, Kamala, you can do better.” Again, I’m not a chant girl. I get the idea that the vote is all we have, but I don’t think it is. Public shaming is a powerful thing, and you don’t have to do that by saying you refuse to vote for her. Even in the dreamer protests back in 2012, they weren’t all being so absolute with refusing to vote for Obama. They were mainly focused on shaming Obama into acting through chants and signs that called out his bs and appealled to his humanity. Shaming works.

    4. This isn’t a meme, it’s a FAQ



  • Here’s the article I’m basing my comment on. This was from a week and a half ago I think? Maybe roughly 2 weeks.

    Quote I’m referencing: “Activists say they don’t expect a full-throated embrace of their platform — for the U.S. to stop selling arms to Israel — but say she must give them some indication that in a Harris presidency, U.S. foreign policy would shift.” They’re talking about how they don’t expect an arms embargo, but want change. This is talking to the leaders of the uncommitted movement.

    What you’re saying is a shift from what they said back when the article was written. Which happens but is moving the goal posts. Course the article isn’t that good at them talking about what they actually DO want. Good to know they said that in their meeting with Harris, I’ll remember that for future.


  • We were never gonna get an arms embargo. It would have been nice, but that wasn’t a thing that was realistically gonna happen. She’s still wants a ceasefire. Still thinks the things happening in Gaza are a “humanitarian crisis,” which isn’t saying genocide but is still more than biden really did. The uncommitted movement, even in prior articles on here, said they’re not expecting an arms embargo, just some sign that things will change. Like a ceasefire and some kinda peace deal. This is just her doing what everyone expected, including uncommitted organizers, supporting Israel but still pushing for change. Now, if the uncommitted organizers move the goal posts, that shows their not willing to compromise at all.


  • The article provides examples of anti democratic language and an example of a specific anti democratic comment from Mo Brooks. But then it says, “While members from both parties used antidemocratic rhetoric in their tweets, Republicans used it more frequently, by a ratio of more than 4 to 1. GOP members appeared to be targeting precisely the kind of voters to whom such language appeals strongly.” The article does not provide what the anti democratic rhetoric from democrats was. It never says that democrats have been calling for overturning an election or any of the examples that the article provides early on. Just says “well yeah, both sides do it, but Republicans more.” I’m suspicious that the anti democratic rhetoric that the democrats use is just calling a fascist a fascist. I guess I won’t know, though, since they don’t give me the examples they claim to have seen.





  • Obviously, the Lord of the Rings Trilogy. Mainly movies for me because I haven’t read them. Extended editions, obviously.

    But also, I adore the mass effect trilogy. Yeah, the rpg elements get gradually watered down, and the third ones ending isn’t the best, but it’s still an absolutely amazing Trilogy that I replay yearly. And it all came out in 5 years! Nowadays, single games have 5 years of dev time, at least. In my eyes, it’s as perfect as it can be…Once it’s been modded a bit.




  • I was waiting for this to make it’s way to lemmy, started reading about them last night. This women’s advocacy group is very unknown, the National Womens Defense League. This is their website. When you go to their about section they talk about how they were founded “in 2022 by two political advocates in the wake of the #MeToo collective outcry.” But never state who those advocates were anywhere. When you go to their press section they’ve only been making posts or sharing articles since November of last year. And you then notice they largely focus on positive things Republicans are doing to fight sexual harassment in the state and bad things democrats have done or that they’re the accussers themselves, although their are one or two exceptions. They dont really comment on that the republicans are often the most pervasive harrassers out there. Now, if i, a random trans girl from a shitty red state, was running a group like this, I’d focus on both parties but I’d also do everything i could to make it known which party is to blame for the majority, and also poat stories of things democrat women have done to help the cause instead of largely GOP women. They do state they were “Joined by a diverse group of advocates, experienced campaigners, and survivors, NWDL was formed and aligned around a state-level strategy and a nonpartisan approach.” So maybe talking about the awfulness of GOP politicians isn’t a good look for a nonpartisan group.

    Sidenote point. They claim Shapiro was to blame for the sexual harassment case that was brought against one of his cabinet members. They say he covered it up. But Shapiro and his administration found out about the accusation, did an investigation, decided go give a settlement of 300,000 to the accuser, and fired the cabinet member. Doesn’t really seem like a cover up except for there was an nda attached. Which isn’t the best but, unfortunately, is pretty standard for cases like these. And again, the harasser lost their job. They were not covered for, given excuses for, or in anyway defended or shielded from repercussions. Should there have been an nda? Ideally no, but the guy still faced repercussions. Which is the whole goal here. To hold them accountable and make them lose their jobs.

    Anyway, back to NWDL. Their claim to fame is basically a report about how sexual harassers are pervasive in the country with 130 statehouse lawmakers being accused by 359 individuals since 2013, also adding there are probably more since many go unreported. Now this is undoubtedly an important thing to research. But they don’t openly give you the report, or give you more information other than those numbers. You have to give them your email and first and last name to actually get the report and I’m not doing that.

    So then, this women’s group has a seemingly interesting report. And says a lot of good stuff when it comes to it’s Commitment to survivors but for a supposedly important institution, they don’t like to talk about who actually founded them. I’ve looked at a lot of these kind of groups, they always say who founded them, even if they’re shitty people like Vivek Ramaswamy. So that’s pretty fucking suspicious.

    They’re sponsored by the Center for Transformative Action, which is a group attached to Cornell University. Seems like a legit organization, has a lot of really worthwhile seeming projects. But they also talk about who founded them in their about us section, which the NWDL does not. They seem to be a 501c3 that allows group to apply for financial sponsorship, so it typically allows smaller groups to survive, at least theoretically. Again, they seem to have an slew of projects they sponsor and they all seem important.

    Now, when I go to the NWDL section, I finally find out who founded the group. Emma Davidson Tribbs, according to the sight she “has made a career of joining political and social movements at key moments of change to define the next stage of success.” Which sounds fine, kinda bandwagony, but hey whenever you jump on the movement is better late than never. But then there’s just a bunch of buzzwords and jargon that, while sounds good, doesn’t really say much. Her qualifications are “She has been trained as a spokesperson by the Women’s Media Center, completed management training at the Center for Creative Leadership, and is a graduate of the New York Junior League’s Nonprofit Boards Clearinghouse. Emma is a graduate of Illinois Wesleyan University and earned her Master’s Degree in International Development from the University of Bristol.” Not bad, still some buzzwords but overall decent. She’s also the only person listed here for the groups team. Despite only being co-founder.

    Now. I’m not saying Emma isn’t an ally and advocate for the cause at all. But why doesn’t she have her information on the website of the group she runs? Why did I have to go to the sponsored group to find out she even existed? Could be just a bad site designer but every site for groups like these I’ve been to has gotten that right so seems weird to get it wrong. I think the thing that bugs me the most is just the focus on only republican efforts to help sexual harrassers. The framing is supposed to be nonpartisan but usually only post stories that highloght how GOP women are working to change things. Which, if you had to select a group of women who excuse sexual harassment the most, GOP women would be the top of the list. Or at least in the top 3.

    So at the end here, I don’t necessarily distrust this group, but i haven’t been shown they’re trustworthy framers of the parties and how they are working toward the cause. Their report is definitely important and i would like to know more if I didn’t have to give them my information. And theirs nothing wrong with new advocacy groups being formed, but they should be open about who founded them on their website. I think it’s understandable to criticize Shapiro, but it’s not like he excused it and kept the guy on staff. If he did then I think they’d have more reasoning. I dunno, it just feels off. I’d be interested in doing more research but I’m not connected to talk to the people I would need to. I look forward to seeing if Shapiro is on the ticket, I imagine if he is, we will hear more about this case.

    If I got anything wrong or you notice some incorrect grammar, please comment to let me know so I can fix this. It’s hard writing something this long on mobile.

    Edit: added the groups name at the start





  • Yeah, it’s great for queer folks in blue states. But as a trans person in a red state, I still get worried about if I’m gonna stop being able to get my meds one day. If my neighbors will find out and suddenly stop treating me with general kindness and start treating me as a freak. Or if this’ll be the time when I get yelled at going to a public bathroom. I went on a car trip to a different city this weekend, and I was terrified to take stops to pee because, even though I generally pass, some people are still assholes. Usually, it just means being stared at, something I can see people doing because I wear mirrored sunglasses, but one day, I might be yelled at or called something. And my state is working on banning my bathroom use in multiple public settings, so one day, I might have to be scared of having the cops called on me.

    So, while I’m glad there’s been failures, a lot of failures, but 80 is still way too many. Tons of queer folk have to live under the threat of this and it’s fucking bigotry and all should be failing.

    Edit addition: I’m also disabled and walk with a cane so I get stares by just being a young person using a cane, so I’m usually being stared at for that. But there’s definitely bigots in there who clock me.


  • Swearing is viewed as a bad thing mainly because of religion, particularly anything puritanical. It’s the equivalent of taking the lords name in vain for some people. When I was in 3rd grade, I said dammit after dropping my coat instead of putting it on a hanger. I learned that word really early cause my mother had been using it since she was 3. My friend heard me and told the teacher, a nun, who pulled me aside and said cursing is never, ever, okay and that it’s taking the lords name in vain even if you don’t say Jesus or God or whatever. Also said Dammit was one of the worst ones.

    So I agree with others here. The question should not be, “Why is cursing normal for some people?” It should be the opposite. Curse words are just words. They don’t have power like religion states. They’re just words. To whomever doesn’t curse, stop letting just words have power over you. They don’t fucking matter.