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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I really don’t think Netanyahu and his genocide cabinet would stop even if they stopped receiving weapons and/or funding. You could prosecute under the ICC but he’s not going to attend any sort of trial. Sanctions will likely never happen.

    I’m not saying what the west (it’s not just the US) is doing is right in backing Netanyahu’s cabinet. What I am saying is this leader’s actions are a prime example of evil if I’ve ever seen it in my lifetime.

    What happened to Israel on Oct. 6 was evil beyond comprehension. It is not ok to genocide a whole population on that basis.

    Additionally, it’s disheartening that Trump would be even worse amid reports he’s counseled the Israeli PM to avoid a ceasefire for his own political aspirations. Dangerous fascist dictators flock together, it would seem.



  • Our parties are more left leaning than US ones, yeah. So the left-most leaning party, the NDP is the Bernies and AOCs. Just slightly to the right of them but not by much are the centre-left (some could argue centre, for Canada) Liberals aka US Dems but these are still left of the US Dems. Then you have the Conservatives who used to be centre right but they’re really flirting with being firmly right which is STILL to the left of the US Repubs. So yeah, we’re pretty left.

    Here’s a good breakdown someone wrote on the other site:

    There’s a Daily Show from back in the Stewart days when Harper’s Conservatives won the federal election in Canada. The line went something like:

    “Right wing parties are winning everywhere! In Canada, the Conservative Party, or as we’d know it here, the Gay Rainbow Alliance, has won their election.”

    If that gives you any idea.

    The NDP are mostly in-line with the further left of the Dems, but realistically, the Liberals are only slightly more towards the centre than them. The Conservatives are historically right of centre, but still left of most of the American center. That was largely true before the Progressive Conservatives failed, merged with the Reform party, and became the Conservative Party of Canada.

    That said, the Conservative parties have been moving further right in recent years. Some of this was because their supporters were generally finance, oil, large corporations, etc., so the policies they pushed forward were usually beneficial to them. But more recently they’ve been pursuing a lighter version of US-style populism. Mostly though, their platform for the past 3 leaders seems to be “aren’t you sick of Trudeau yet?” because they don’t have much substance in anything else they claim to support.



  • Yes thank you. It didn’t read as natural - that’s the word.

    It’s disheartening that one can’t disagree on this topic without being eaten alive. I’m not saying elect Donald Trump and the couchfucker or anything ffs. Plus, I’m Canadian - so probably more left leaning than any US Dem - and as I’ve expressed, I really want the US to get their shit together.

    I’ve done Toastmasters. I’m a writer for a living. I know how to give feedback on speeches. I also acknowledged that not every speech is received the same way by every viewer.

    I’m not even saying she’s bad - I’m just saying she could be GREAT with more practice. I don’t understand why this is a shocking thing to say.



  • There’s nothing holding her back from being a great speaker like Obama. She needs more time and practice to develop her skills further to get to that next level. And maybe a better speechwriter.

    I’m definitely a fan of hers, but felt that this could have been executed better. She did not have a lot of vocal variation and came out blazing fairly early on in the speech. Not going to rewatch it, but that was my perspective from last night. At one point I was like whoa Kimberly Guilfoyle, take it down a notch.

    I do understand the need to be angry but it’s much more impactful when vocal variation, pitch, tone and volume are employed more effectively to build toward the anger.



  • I read my (dementia/alzheimers) mother’s journals and they were full of “she’s just so angry” and “I don’t understand why her room is so messy” and “She’s lazy and won’t help with the family business, but I would have been happy to as a teenager.”

    I’m like damn mom you were never given language to actually understand me.

    Even my sister to this day goes: “Well now that you know you have it you can just come up with strategies to overcome it.” 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️






  • Is your friend group maybe not as available because it’s all new love and stuff?

    It is around that time where people start coupling up and getting married and having babies.

    You’re gonna have some friends that you naturally drift apart from during this phase - especially with the babies.

    I don’t want babies and this has been tough. I try to stay aware of how much energy I’m giving friendships where people don’t/can’t reciprocate. Even putting it out there and saying “hey! I’d love to hang out and plan a lunch in the next month with you. You seem super busy - can you let me know if there is a good time?” Put the focus on them. If they don’t let you know you have your answer not to sink more energy into it until their lives change. You don’t need to write anyone off - just shift your energy.


  • If you don’t want a partner stop caring how other people live their lives and what they’re doing. People change their minds all the time and also say things they don’t mean.

    Something that helps me ground when I get mad about other peoples’ actions is that it’s not about me. It’s not about conversations they have had with me or promises they have made to me. I simply do not factor into the choices another person makes in their lives.


  • You will find them but you have to be happy being alone first.

    I might be reading too much into your writing, but it strikes me as frustrated. Whether or not you voice this know that it’s harder to attract people when you’re unhappy.

    How hard are you working? Remember to have balance in your life and participate in activities where you meet new people. A change of scene helps too - move or take a long vacation to do what gives you joy.