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sbf@feddit.orgOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I'm starting to resent my long-distance girlfriendEnglish2·3 days agoAh, I should’ve clarified:
We’re both aware of the issues we’ve been having and both agree that closing the distance could very well fix them. So, we said we could marry only legally (as in go to a courthouse and do it that way) purely as a measure to do so while I serve. If we find out everything’s fine in that time, we can have an actual ceremony with family and vows and all that good stuff. If not, we get it annulled like it never happened
sbf@feddit.orgOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I'm starting to resent my long-distance girlfriendEnglish2·3 days ago(Great writing for a rant that you didn’t proof-read. I especially like the LaTeX-like emdashes.)
Thanks, lol. I use them a lot
But if you decide she’s The One for you and she feels the same about you, then stay the course and maybe attempt to make your relationship more permanent (marriage) which might solve some of the problems (or make them worse if you’re not both committed to it)
I was thinking I would tough it out until we see one another in July — that’s just two and a half months away from now. If we still hit it off together in person after so long apart, I might stay, but if it’s awkward and/or we’re still having problems, I might leave. I just need to remain disciplined and moral with my friends — especially the one I know is interested in me — until then.
Edit: We’ve talked about getting married for the sole purpose of being able to live together while I serve. In my mind, if that doesn’t work out, a divorce isn’t the worst thing in the world, especially since we obviously won’t have kids or joint ownership of any assets.
sbf@feddit.orgOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•I'm starting to resent my long-distance girlfriendEnglish2·3 days agoTrust me, I’ve tried the whole “fucking around and having fun” thing. It’s definitely not for me; I much prefer a long-term partner over a situationship that lasts for a week or two.
sbf@feddit.orgto AnarchyChess@sopuli.xyz•Congratulations, Sopuli! You are now part of the interplatform Anarchy Chess game. Top comment picks the next move.1·3 days agoDoesn’t matter. Sacrilege…
sbf@feddit.orgto AnarchyChess@sopuli.xyz•Congratulations, Sopuli! You are now part of the interplatform Anarchy Chess game. Top comment picks the next move.2·4 days agoBishop F1 takes on H3. Zombies are sacrilege
sbf@feddit.orgto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•The inconsistent naming for insert row/columns in the German MS OfficeEnglish6·14 days agoLibreOffice for the win
sbf@feddit.orgto Worldbuilding@lemmy.world•Alien Biospheres: A Spec-Evo Worldbuilding Series by BiblaridionEnglish1·17 days agoFantastic series. Also check out Artifiexian’s channel; he’s the guy he collabbed with in the first video
Not once have I encountered one. I don’t mind them, though
sbf@feddit.orgtoData is Beautiful@lemmy.world•Sweden's porn preferences vs radiation received from Chernobyl (not serious)English3·17 days agoCould it be that there are a lot of VPN hosts in the hentai regions and worldwide preferences are effecting the stats? Some VPN services I have used in the past have had Swedish servers around there
During Helene, I had a tree fall through my house while I was in bed, and it stopped about 6 inches from my face
I fully agree, lol. I browse ich_iel with reading glasses and a dictionary
I’m learning German, too! I took 3 years in school and wanted to continue my education on my own. So far, it’s… going
sbf@feddit.orgto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•My kids don’t like to watch cartoons or movie explicitly made for kids. What are some good movies targeted toward adults that kids can watch?3·18 days agoRemember the Titans. Absolute cinema
sbf@feddit.orgto Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•Running out of content to watch... / How do y'all find interesting content to watch?English4·18 days agoAll of my interests are niche, so this SHOULD happen to me all the time. The thing is, I have about 40,000,000 of them, so I usually get inspired to work on something else when I get bored
sbf@feddit.orgto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•My ravioli bowl won't unstick. Took about an hour of prying, and still I couldn't unstick the plate.English2·18 days agoIt had it coming
sbf@feddit.orgto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•My ravioli bowl won't unstick. Took about an hour of prying, and still I couldn't unstick the plate.English8·18 days agoNope. It has to come straight from the starfish
sbf@feddit.orgto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Lemmy has the ideal number of posts for me. Just enough to have a good time but not too many that I'm scrolling forever4·18 days agoIntellectual? Perhaps. Civil? Not always…
I just picked up Blindsight at my county library. What a coincidence
Agreed, but the legal process will allow us to close the distance while I serve in the military instead of having to wait 4 years.