• Dashi@lemmy.world
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    12 days ago

    It sucks for sure. On average I invite 20ish people and expect 5 to show up. If nobody shows up I’m still eating the good food and having a couch bonfire. Ain’t nobody stopping my fun

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      12 days ago

      Why disappoint yourself: don’t invite anyone in the first place and enjoy it all the same.

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        12 days ago

        Hahaha, because I do have friends that I do like to see. But we are all of the age where we actually have responsibilities (kids, wives, husbands, family, jobs etc). Not everyone can be available at 3 weeks notice. And that’s fair