I (29f) have been with my partner (33m) for 2 years, living together 1 year. I have an issue with the amount of time he plays dungeons and dragons, compared to how much time we spend together.

For context;

Monday - we both work. He finishes at 4/5, I get home just after 6. 7pm he goes to play DND.

Tuesday - I get home just after 6 and we have his daughter.

Wednesday - same as Tuesday.

Thursday - same as Monday, 7pm he goes to play DND.

Friday - both tend to have the evening off, but he usually has to work.

Weekends - I’m free (unless I agree to work overtime on Saturday which is rare), he used to work all weekend. Now however, on a Saturday he works 9 or 10am-12pm. Has a 6 hour break, then goes back to work at 6pm until they close (works in a restaurant).

Here’s the problem, I got excited thinking we can actually spend time together in this 6 hour window. We rarely get to spend time together (without his daughter), so it’s nice we now have the opportunity to. However, he’s decided he’s going to play more DND during this 6 hour window. I’m so sick of coming second to DND, I have no issue with the game itself, just the fact he’s so quick to ditch me for it. I love that he has his own hobbies, but we’re rarely intimate and never spend time together. I just feel like roommates at this point. AITA?

  • Eladarling@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    NTA or NAH. It’s reasonable to want to spend time with your partner. Communication is key, especially if there are any underlying conversations that gavent been addressed or resolved