If I’m telling someone else how long a drive will be, I tell them the drive time without stops. If I’m telling someone how long a drive is/was for me personally, I’ll include time for stops and note how many times I stopped along the way, for context

That’s a mother then, not a MILF trope

“My flatmate is over the hill…” “…because I’m not retired…” “At his age…”

YTA for the condescending way you talk about him. Why, because he has the audacity to be older than you and take something that is important seriously?

INFO: why did she jump to the assumption that you were pranking her? Have you pulled pranks, jokes, teases, funny asides, or anything adjacent prior to this?

NTA or NAH. It’s reasonable to want to spend time with your partner. Communication is key, especially if there are any underlying conversations that gavent been addressed or resolved

Incorrect, but I understand the spirit of your argument.

In the adult industry, it doesn’t matter if the age of consent in a certain state is under 18. 18 USC 2257 dictates that no minors can appear in porn and as either a result of that or out of fear of persuction for obscenity law, no US made/distributed porn can legally depict a character having sex who is under 18. State laws are irrelevant, as are laws outside the US, generally, because US distribution is key for sales

That’s conceptually different. You’re taking about why society approves of regarding age differences in dating.

This post is addressing the nuances in legality and plot lines in porn

But you can’t depict a child in a porno, which is the specific case I’m speaking to here. I don’t disagree with you, generally

For me personally? Turns out about 27:20 or 34:21, but individual anecdotes are not good data points

*girl

This is precisely the context I was speaking to

*She, and they are very rarely implied in porn unless it’s in the context of finishing/boarding/imaginary 18+ young adult school.

Pornographers who are above board in any way at all wouldn’t dress a set to imply there is a minor present

I’m focusing on MILF plots in porn specifically, where if the woman is a mother of an infant, they couldn’t ever (nor would they, should they, would anyone want them to) show her with her child as a maternal figure in that role

Cerebral Specter!

I just want to say how impressive it is that you did all of that. I can’t even keep Trader Joe’s Basil plants alive for more than a few days.

If gold were a thing here, I would give it to you

Instead of Reddit Gold, may I offer you Lemmy Cold 🧊 ?

You shouldn’t be arrested for a crime you haven’t committed yet. There is no evidence of a crime, just a woman in a dress with condoms in her purse.

I thought the article did a pretty good job of addressing those points

Hair salons, nail salons, valet, dog grooming, any sort of contract work around your house like lawnmowing, bars…